Men are superior and women should stay in the kitchen and raise children. That\u2019s what many men in Nigeria \u2013 known to be a patriarchal country \u2013 believe.<\/p>\n
Gender equality is not regarded by many men in Nigeria\u2019s communities as an important human rights issue for women.<\/p>\n
RNI reporter Aisha Jamal spoke to men in Maiduguri about their feelings on the subject. One of them said gender equality was \u201cunacceptable and the male is always superior\u201d.<\/p>\n
Muhammad Ali said: \u201cWomen are supposed to remain at home accepting that the men will take care of them. The best option for women is to stay at home, look after the household duties and the children so that they raise a good generation. The man is always considered superior and it is his responsibility to provide for his wife\u2019s needs. But the two can never be the same or equal. Men are superior to women.\u201d<\/p>\n
Abdullahi Yunusa, a father, said there were differences in gender but society still regarded men as superior because they were seen as protectors of women.<\/p>\n
\u201cGender equity means respect and kindness for and from both a woman and a man; it is reciprocal in nature \u2013 one cannot receive without giving.\u201d<\/p>\n
Aminu Muhammad, a civil servant in Yobe State, said that from creation men and women were created differently and each had a specific responsibility based on their physical appearances and needs.<\/p>\n
\u201cJustice demands gender equity for women and men \u2013 one cannot surpass that right because that creates inequality.\u201d<\/p>\n
Fati Jidda Harun, a gender-based violence (GBV) worker at the Gender Equality, Peace and Development Centre (GEDaDC) in Maiduguri, said equality involved everyone: women, men, girls and boys.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat is one of the core principles of our organisation \u2013 to remove any barriers that prevent the full participation of women and girls in the public and political rights.\u201d<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cGender equality does not mean that we are advocating that woman are superior to men, which is what many people think we do. Rather we promote equality as a human right for each person \u2013 male and female \u2013 that needs to be observed.\u201d<\/p>\n
At one community gathering with men and boys about the equality of genders, many of the men responded that women were given more chances than men because even non-governmental organisations (NGOs) recruited more women than men. They said when the women had work responsibilities, they often neglected their home duties and lost respect for their spouses, declaring that they were equal to men.<\/p>\n
Harun said despite societal perception that women were inferior to men, GEDaDC, through awareness programmes, promoted and emphasised the importance of gender equity, which gave women and men the same rights, meaning neither gender should feel subordinate.<\/p>\n
She emphasised that gender equality was a basic human right.<\/p>\n
\u201cEquity for women is low in this country because men have set up barriers that have prevented girls from getting an education and not allowing women to work or have any say in decision-making. When such cases are reported to us, we look into it, investigate and try to find a solution that works for both parties.\u201d<\/p>\n
According to community perception, women were to be cared for and looked after by men, whose main role was to provide money, care and protection, she said. This often meant that women \u2013 although it was their right \u2013 were not able to participate and contribute to the society in which they lived.<\/p>\n
\u201cMany men believe that when women are allowed to mingle and go to work, it disrupts families, even though the money she brings into the household helps to make all their lives more financially stable. Unfortunately, many men still do not accept this and believe that women\u2019s roles should be dedicated to the family and they should remain at home because that is their place,\u201d Harun said.<\/p>\n
The United Nations said gender inequality in Nigeria was influenced by different cultures and beliefs. In most parts of Nigeria, women were considered subordinate to their male counterparts, especially in northern Nigeria where men believed that women were best suited as home keepers.<\/p>\n
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